Mobile phones and the net are helping them maintain social ties, when modern lives are so time and energy starved. Traditionalist worried that new technologies are hurt family togetherness, but this study found that technology allows for new kinds of connectedness built around cell phones and the internet never possible before.
In the past people gathered around dinner table at the end of the day to eat, unwind and catch up with each other. Then came the television and quick-fix dinners. Family time was gobbling up microwaved meals and staring at the tube. It took away conversations. And now the hi tech tools have further driven a wedge between family members. It is taking away our togetherness. Meals are never eaten together or at the same time and place. Even when we are in the same house, we interact with each other by texting or over Internet!
The virutal relationship is a poor substitute for the real stuff. The contemporary reality of overloaded lives with little time for each other are destorying soul of our family life. I am glad for new connectedness and grateful for new hi-tech tools. I marvel at these miracle tools and what it can do for us. I use them extensively, but I also realize its limitation as well. Let’s not get carried away by such research.
Building strong family ties require skill, commitment and time. No tools or technology can do it for us.